{"id":1122,"date":"2026-09-08T08:23:20","date_gmt":"2026-09-08T08:23:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.lindy-jazz.co.uk\/?p=1122"},"modified":"2026-09-08T08:24:09","modified_gmt":"2026-09-08T08:24:09","slug":"should-i-lead-or-follow","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.lindy-jazz.co.uk\/?p=1122","title":{"rendered":"Should I Lead or Follow?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">At Lindy Jazz, we aim to make learning to dance a simple and joyful process.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Sometimes, though, when we are new to dancing &#8211; or simply new to learning something unfamiliar &#8211; it is very easy to overcomplicate things.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">We can start watching everyone else, checking and assessing whether we are doing exactly what they are doing, worrying about whether we are doing it right, trying to listen to every instruction, and even attempting to solve problems that are not ours to solve.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">So let\u2019s make this simple.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">How do I know whether to lead or follow?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">It depends on whether you are new or experienced, and what you want from your dancing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">If you are new, choose one role and focus on learning that set of skills.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">If you are experienced, you may enjoy trying the opposite role to deepen your understanding of the dance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">And whichever role you choose, you do not need to worry about balancing the numbers in the class. Your teachers have already planned for that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Leading and following feel very different<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">In Lindy Hop, we dance in lots of different ways. Sometimes we dance on our own, sometimes as a group, and sometimes with a partner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">When we dance with a partner, we use two different sets of skills: <strong>leading and following<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">They can feel very different.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">A leader is learning how to communicate movement clearly, comfortably and in time with the music.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">A follower is learning how to listen through the connection, respond to what is being led and still bring their own movement and musicality to the dance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Neither role is linked to gender.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Anyone can lead and anyone can follow.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">If you are new, focus on one role<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">When you are at the beginning of your dancing journey, we recommend choosing either leading or following and concentrating on that role.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">During class, you will often hear two sets of instructions &#8211; one for leaders and one for followers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">You do not need to take in both.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">If you are following, listen for the follower instructions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">If you are leading, listen for the leader instructions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Trying to listen to both can make something simple feel much more complicated.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">So give yourself permission to focus on just one job.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">You can always explore the other role later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">You don\u2019t need to balance the class<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">You are coming to Lindy Jazz to be a <strong>student<\/strong> &#8211; not a teacher, organiser or problem solver.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">If you look around and see lots of people of one gender, please don\u2019t assume they are all dancing the same role.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">And please don\u2019t think:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><em>\u201cThere are too many followers. I\u2019d better lead.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Or the other way around.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">If you change role simply to try to solve what looks like a numbers problem, you may end up making the class more confusing for yourself and for others.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>You don\u2019t need to fix anything.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Your teachers have already planned exercises so that everyone stays involved, everyone gets plenty of dancing and everyone has a chance to work on their own skills.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">You won\u2019t be left with nothing to do simply because the numbers do not match.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">So choose your role and relax.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">We\u2019ve got the rest covered.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Choose your role and stay with it for the class<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">At the beginning of the session, decide whether you would like to lead or follow and, as far as possible, stay with that role for the class.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">We know that people sometimes swap because they are trying to be helpful.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">But changing roles partway through a session can cause confusion for you and for the people dancing with you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">There will always be another class.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">You can follow this week and try leading another week.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Or you may decide that you really enjoy one role and want to keep developing it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Both are absolutely fine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">If you are experienced, try the other side of the dance<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Once you have plenty of experience in your usual role, learning the opposite role can give you a much fuller understanding of Lindy Hop.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">If you normally lead, learning to follow helps you understand what it actually feels like to receive a lead.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">You begin to notice how much difference timing, clarity, comfort and connection make.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">That can help you become a better leader.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">If you normally follow, learning to lead gives you a very different appreciation of how clear a lead needs to be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">You experience how timing, direction and confidence affect how easy something is to follow.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">That can help you become a better follower.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">So learning the opposite role is not simply about collecting more skills.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">It allows you to experience the dance from both sides of the partnership.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">If you have been dancing for a couple of years or more, a beginners\u2019 class can be a lovely place to explore the opposite role at a comfortable pace.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">You certainly do not have to.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">But if your goal is to understand the dance more deeply, it can be enormously useful.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Your partner is learning too<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">One of the lovely things about Lindy Jazz is that <strong>we are all learning together<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">That means your partner will not be perfect.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">And neither will you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">A leader may not lead something in exactly the way you have experienced elsewhere.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">A follower may not respond exactly as you expected.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">That is part of learning.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Rather than trying to correct or teach your partner, concentrate on your own dancing and on the exercise your teachers have given you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">What can <em>you<\/em> notice?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">What can <em>you<\/em> practise?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">What can <em>you<\/em> make a little clearer, easier or more comfortable?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Your teachers are there to do the teaching.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">That leaves you free to enjoy being the student.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Trust the simple building blocks<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Sometimes the exercises we give you may not immediately feel like \u201cproper dancing\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">There is a reason for that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">We build your dancing gradually.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">You might begin with a rhythm, a foot pattern, movement on your own or a very simple partner exercise.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Be patient with those building blocks.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">You do not need to rush ahead or work out the whole dance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Just do the exercise in front of you.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Then do the next one.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Week by week, those pieces begin to join together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Your movement becomes more natural.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Your leading or following becomes clearer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">And suddenly you realise\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>You\u2019re dancing.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">By Week 6, you may find yourself dancing through a whole song using far more rhythms, movements and ideas than you imagined you could learn in such a short time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">That is the Lindy Jazz magic<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">So keep it simple.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">If you are new, choose one role and focus on it.<br>If you are experienced, consider exploring the other role.<br>Choose your role at the start of class and stay with it.<br>You do not need to balance the room or solve any problems.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Focus on your own learning, trust the process, and enjoy the 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